Men hate it when you tell them you're fine when you're not. That's why you should think about expressing your feelings in a different way. Here are a few things that you can say the next time he asks you if you're okay:
If he's asking you if you're okay, then he obviously knows that you're not. He's just asking a question he already knows the answer to.
Instead of simply saying you're fine and then asking him to drop the conversation, you can explain what the word "FINE" stands for. In his mind, it means you're fickle, insecure, neurotic, and emotional.
You might as well hit him with the truth. You're annoyed with him, and you aren't going to tell him why, but you are going to patiently wait for him to apologize.
Once he finds out why you're upset, he's going to be even more distraught than you are.
This will let him know for sure that he's done something wrong. With any luck, he'll be able to figure it out quickly, so he can plan his argument, too.
This is the cold hard truth, but at least it sounds cute and innocent, because you're rhyming.
Don't you hate when you have to explain why you're angry? It's always better if your man can figure out what he did wrong all on his own.
Sometimes, he thinks you're a mind reader, so why wouldn't you think he's one, too?
This is the truth. You'd be fine if he would treat you right.
This one will make it clear you're anything but "fine."
After all, if this is as good as it gets, a breakup will be in his future.
This is the real reason why we say we're fine, isn't it? We don't want to look overly emotional.
He won't have a good comeback for this one.
If he wants you to act like a robot, then you should play the part of one.
This will let him know he's in the doghouse.
Make sure you say this sarcastically, so he realizes you're actually miserable.
There's no need to explain how you're feeling when he already knows you're upset.
If you use these alternatives, he'll miss the days when you told him you were fine. Do you find yourself saying, "I'm fine" a lot?
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