What People Misunderstand About Being in a Relationship

By Holly • Apr 3, 2014 MD

Being single can be awesome, but you should recognize the best times to be in a relationship. It’s great to have someone who is always there for you, willing to help you out when you’re in a pickle. No matter what situation you get yourself into, they'll be ready to be your savior. Whether you're single or navigating the dating world, exploring relationship dynamics can help you appreciate both independence and partnership. You can agree that these are some of the absolute best times to have a supportive partner by your side.

| Perk Category | Everyday Scenario | Partner Benefit | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Household Pests | Unexpected spiders or bugs | Someone else handles the removal | | Weather & Comfort | Dropping temperatures | Instant access to an extra warm jacket | | Wardrobe Boost | Craving cozy loungewear | Free access to oversized hoodies |

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1. When You See a Bug

When there’s an uninvited spider in your room, you might suddenly decide that you never really wanted to live there anyway. You could kill it if you really had to, but no one wants to approach those big creepy-crawlies up close. One of the best times to be in a relationship is when you need immediate help in the bug department. You can consult resources like the National Pest Management Association for prevention tips, but for instant action, you don’t have to go through the trouble of crushing it or capturing it and releasing it outside, because your partner will gladly do the dirty work for you.

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In addition to having your partner help with bugs, being in a relationship can also mean having someone to split household chores with, someone to share expenses and financial responsibilities, and someone to offer emotional support during tough times. Studies have shown that being in a loving relationship can also have positive effects on physical and mental health, leading to a longer and happier life. Plus, having a partner means always having someone to go on adventures and try new things with, making life more exciting and fulfilling. So next time you see a bug, remember all the other benefits of being in a relationship and be grateful for your bug-squashing partner.

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2. When You’re Cold

There’s no need to check the weather before you step outside. If you want to wear a tank top in winter, go right ahead. If you want to wear your bathing suit in the snow, it’s completely okay. Checking forecasts from the National Weather Service is smart, but if you didn’t wear enough layers, your partner will happily offer their jacket to you. You never have to worry about shivering or being caught in the cold again, especially when compared to getting help with unwanted bugs around the house.

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In addition to the freedom to dress however you want, being in a relationship also means having a built-in cuddle buddy to keep you warm during those cold winter nights. Not only that, but studies have shown that physical touch and affection from a partner can actually help regulate body temperature and make you feel warmer. Plus, having someone to share a warm cup of hot cocoa or a cozy blanket with can make those cold days a lot more enjoyable. So not only does being in a relationship provide emotional support, but it can also provide physical warmth during the colder months.

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3. When You’re Poor

If you’re running low on cash before payday, you can tell your partner you want to go out for a cozy dinner, just the two of you. When the bill comes, they’ll offer to pay or split it generously. While managing your personal budget with guidance from NerdWallet is great for long-term goals, you won’t have to worry about starving when money is tight, because you can order a great dinner without paying a cent. It’s one of the sweetest perks of being in a relationship.

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Another advantage of being in a relationship when you're low on funds is the ability to split expenses. Whether it's rent, groceries, or utility bills, having a partner to share the financial burden with can greatly alleviate the stress of being poor. Plus, you can also take advantage of each other's skills and resources, such as cooking meals at home instead of eating out, or borrowing each other's clothes instead of buying new ones. Being in a relationship can also provide emotional support during tough financial times, as you have someone to lean on and share your worries with.

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4. When You’re Tired

It’s scary to fall asleep on a late-night train or bus commute, but if you’re with your partner, you have nothing to worry about. According to insights from the Sleep Foundation, feeling safe significantly improves restfulness. Your partner will protect you from any sort of danger or missing your stop. Plus, they double as the perfect pillow. Rest your head on their shoulder, and you’ll be able to fall asleep comfortably anywhere.

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Being in a relationship can have its perks, especially when it comes to being tired. According to a study by the University of Hertfordshire, couples who sleep together report better quality sleep and feel more rested the next day. This is because physical touch and intimacy can release oxytocin, a hormone that promotes relaxation and reduces stress. So not only can your partner protect you while you sleep, but they can also help you get a better night's rest. And let's not forget the added bonus of having a built-in pillow when you're on the go. So next time you're feeling exhausted, lean on your partner for some much needed comfort and rest.

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5. When You Want Friends

Entering a relationship instantly provides you with a whole new group of friends... or at least potential new buddies. Your partner’s inner circle quickly becomes your extended social circle. You may not hang out on a weekly basis, but you’re sure to see them often at gatherings, birthdays, and weekend hangouts.

Some quick perks of expanding your social circle include:

  • Instant invites to double dates and group outings.
  • Access to new hobbies and shared activities.
  • A built-in support system for social events.

If you all get along, then there you go—a whole new crew ready to hang out.

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In addition to gaining new friends through your partner, being in a relationship can also introduce you to new social circles and activities. Your partner may have different interests and hobbies, which can open up new opportunities for you to try new things and meet new people. This can be especially beneficial for introverted individuals who may struggle to make friends on their own. Furthermore, being in a relationship can also provide a support system and a sense of belonging, which can be crucial for maintaining mental and emotional well-being.

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6. When You’re Confused

If you don’t understand an inside joke, a reference, or a punchline, it can feel embarrassing to ask a group of acquaintances what it means. Fortunately, your partner isn't allowed to judge you. If you’re lost during a conversation or can’t figure out what a comedian is trying to say, ask away without hesitation. Your partner is like your personal search engine, much like sharing dinner expenses when you need a hand.

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In a relationship, it's important to have someone who you can turn to for support and understanding. This is especially true when it comes to humor and jokes. It can be embarrassing to admit that you don't understand a joke, but in a healthy relationship, your partner should be there to help and not judge. This also applies to situations where you may feel confused or lost in a conversation. Having a partner who you can ask for clarification or explanation can make you feel more comfortable and supported. This creates a strong foundation for communication and understanding in a relationship.

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7. When You Want New Clothes

Now, your partner might not have a closet full of the latest high-fashion trends, but they’ll almost certainly be willing to share what they do have with you. If you need a comfy oversized hoodie on a chilly evening, just ask to borrow theirs. You don’t have to tell them your true underlying motivation. Lie and say you want to wear it so you can smell their scent when you’re miles apart. In reality, you just want to effortlessly expand your loungewear wardrobe, much like borrowing a warm coat when the weather turns cold, but they don’t need to know that.

Being in a relationship is awesome, for far more reasons than you'd think. Are you currently dating someone? What’s the greatest perk of being with them? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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  • Wendy

    2014-04-04T01:08:20.857Z

    Being loved and loving in return
  • Isabella

    2014-04-04T22:59:59.107Z

    It would be nice occasionally if he offered to buy something nice for me hasn't happened in ages!
  • Cee

    2014-04-04T04:44:20.664Z

    Greatest perk is that I am always guaranteed a lift to places!!! Have a personal shopper who carries all my bags and gets clothes from top shelf
  • Erin

    2014-04-04T01:43:54.474Z

    Knowing that for the rest of my life, I can put my trust and all into ONE person and never have to worry about a burglar coming or me getting lost and not being found, or me going through tough times alone, knowing that I have someone that will do whatever for me and there's no limit to what he would do to see me smile ❤️
  • Bailey

    2014-04-04T01:38:52.557Z

    i dont think this is a serious blog but wouldnt you want a partner as someone to spend time with and love? not to use them as an ATM?
  • Christy

    2014-04-04T04:56:18.782Z

    Seriously tho. Where's the funny section?
  • Natasha

    2014-04-04T07:06:32.644Z

    I just love the section 4, I love these perfect pillows which allow me to feel secure
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