You don't need to drink in order to have a good time at a party or while hanging out with friends. If you're out with a group of people whom you desperately want to fit in with, you can still turn down drink offers without seeming "uncool." The best way to do that is by making a joke out of the situation. If you're not sure of what you should say, here are a few funny ways to turn down alcohol:
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1. I Don’t Need to Loosen up. I Just Got It Together
Most social drinkers consume alcohol in order to "get loose." It helps them let go of their inhibitions so they can talk to others without second guessing everything they say. However, there's no reason for you to loosen up when you finally got your life together, now is there?
2. I Don’t Look Good in a Lamp Shade
You've probably seen cliche pictures of partiers wearing lamp shades as hats. That's why you should use this silly excuse to keep your friends from handing you drinks. Of course, you could also say, "It took me forever to do my hair. A lamp shade would mess it all up."
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Besides, who wants to become the next viral meme? Try getting them to crack a smile by saying, "I'm actually auditioning for a role as a teetotaler in an upcoming play, and I've got to stay in character." Sure, it sounds ridiculous, but who can argue with such a steadfast commitment to the arts? As they chuckle at your creative spirit, you'll steer clear of the drinks and the dreaded lamp shade look. Remember, keeping it light and funny can often disarm even the pushiest partygoer.
Frequently asked questions
Sometimes it's just fun to lighten the mood! Plus, turning down a drink with a joke can make an awkward situation more comfortable and show that you're confident in your decision.
Not everyone gets every joke, and that's totally okay! As long as you're comfortable and confident in your response, most people will respect your choice and see it as a fun twist.
Mostly, yes! However, always read the room. Some settings might be more formal or sensitive, so use your judgment about when to throw in one of these funny lines.
Absolutely! Humor can diffuse tension and make it clear that you’re standing your ground, all while keeping the mood light. It’s like playfully setting a boundary.
More often than you think! Most people just want to have a good time and if you keep it light-hearted, they'll often follow suit and respect your decision without making a big deal out of it.
3. I'm Saving My Brain Cells for Science
It's actually a myth that drinking alcohol kills brain cells, but your friends probably don't know that. That's why you should use this excuse. Not only will it get you off the hook for turning down drinks, but it'll make your friends rethink their own decision to drink.
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To back your claim with a dash of scientific flair, you can further explain that alcohol does affect neurotransmitters and brain communication pathways, which might impact your long-term cognitive abilities. Emphasize, with a knowing wink, that you're keeping those neurons firing at full capacity for the greater good of humankind. Who knows? You could have the brain that cures the common cold, and you wouldn't want to jeopardize that with a tipsy night out, right? Plus, it'll give everyone a good laugh while they picture you in a lab coat saving the world, one sober day at a time.
4. I Can’t. I Have to Perform Brain Surgery in the Morning
You can come up with any silly lie that you want about what you have to do in the morning. You can say that you need to fly your jetpack to space or that you need to hunt monsters with Sam and Dean. If your friends are already drunk, then they won't question a word that you say.
5. I'm Pregnant with Benedict Cumberbatch’s Baby
Everyone knows that it's dangerous to drink when you're pregnant. That's why you should use your baby as an excuse--just make sure that you claim you're having a celebrity's baby so that everyone understands you're making a joke. Otherwise, you'll be the hot topic of the night.
6. I Promised My Boyfriend I Wouldn’t Embarrass Him Tonight
If you have a boyfriend, then you can use him as an excuse not to drink. After all, when people consume too much alcohol, they tend to get sloppy and do things they regret. Your friends will understand that you value your boyfriend's respect over alcohol, so this excuse shouldn't get any weird looks.
7. Sorry, I Only Drink the Expensive Stuff
If your hostess tries to make you feel like a loser for turning down a drink, then you should use this line. It'll turn the situation around and make her look bad for buying such cheap beer. It's a low blow, but she deserves it if she's going to judge you for something as silly as being sober.
You should never feel embarrassed about turning down drinks at a party. After all, it's a great thing that you should be proud of! What other funny ways can you think of to turn down a drink offer?
Comments
_niiiiiaaaaa: can't jog early in the morning. :)
Sharon: Alcohol stunts my growth. (I'm 6'2)
MamaKush: I only drink the expensive shit. Haha!
Wendy: "I'm saving my brain cells for science" that's funny and cute! :-)
Alyx: Or just say "I have to drive" or just plain "no thanks, I'm good with water/pop". I don't drink much, and have dealt with people pushing alcohol on me. Just say no and tell them to stop if they pressure you. If they seriously judge you for staying sober, leave. They aren't worth your time.
Godzilla: Just say no kids.
Pat: Preach it, @Alyx!
Vanessa: Funny. The girl you added on the picture drinks alcohol like everyday . I've never seen her doing anything else (on snapchat )
Isabella: Alcohol isn't always the first thing I think about to have a good night - I had a rare girls' night in with my fiancé's sister and we had a very fun (sober) night (:
Dora: Nice going ,if embarrassing yourself is your goal "I don't look good in a lampshade" how did you come up with this useless advice ?
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