Lately I've been kind of a man hater. Even though the majority of my friends are guys I still think it's important for us to connect here. Sometimes guys suck and these are some reasons that I've seen for myself. Hope you can relate here.
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1. THEY FORGET a LOT
Men tend to forget about a lot of things. Sometimes it's not a big deal, but I can turn into one. Like when they forget your birthday, anniversary, or Valentine's Day. When that happens it makes you feel not so special and guys just can't see that.
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It's almost like they have a special talent for zoning out precisely when you discuss plans or share emotions. Sure, multitasking might not be their forte, but listening should be non-negotiable. And it's not just about forgetting dates; it's the little things, too. Did he even notice your new haircut? Oh, who are we kidding? You could march in with a pet dragon and they might just nod absentmindedly. Can be pretty exasperating, right? But hey, they sometimes remember to take out the trash – if that's any consolation.
Yeah, sometimes men do things that aren't as cool as what women do. Nobody's perfect, and guys can mess up just like anyone else.
Well, some dudes might not be as good at listening, or they could be a bit lazy around the house. Sometimes they act tough when it's cool to be kind instead. It's not all guys, but some can be like that.
For sure! Guys can learn and change just like anybody. They can get better at stuff they're not great at, like talking about feelings or helping out more.
Nope, not all men are bad at the same stuff. Every guy is different, so some might be really good at things that others aren't. It's about the person, not just if they're a man or woman.
Sometimes it's just for laughs, like making a joke. Other times it's because some men do things that are not so cool, and it can make it seem like they're not as caring or smart as women. But remember, it's not true for every guy out there.
2. THEY UNDERESTIMATE WOMEN
In my life there have been guys who underestimated me. I know for a fact that I'm not the only one who has experienced this. Guys just look at us like we're babies who are fragile and aren't capable of much. Well obviously they're dead wrong. If they opened up their eyes and actually had some faith in us things could be a lot better.
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It's frustrating and honestly, it's demeaning. The fact that some guys still cling to outdated stereotypes is baffling. Like, hello, we're in the 21st century! Women have proven time and time again that we're strong, intelligent, and more than capable of excelling in areas traditionally dominated by men. From corporate boardrooms to scientific breakthroughs, women are shattering glass ceilings left and right. So maybe it's time these guys stop selling us short and start recognizing the powerhouse that is femininity. Because guess what? Underestimating us will only lead to them being proven wrong, spectacularly.
Yeah, sometimes men do things that aren't as cool as what women do. Nobody's perfect, and guys can mess up just like anyone else.
Well, some dudes might not be as good at listening, or they could be a bit lazy around the house. Sometimes they act tough when it's cool to be kind instead. It's not all guys, but some can be like that.
For sure! Guys can learn and change just like anybody. They can get better at stuff they're not great at, like talking about feelings or helping out more.
Nope, not all men are bad at the same stuff. Every guy is different, so some might be really good at things that others aren't. It's about the person, not just if they're a man or woman.
Sometimes it's just for laughs, like making a joke. Other times it's because some men do things that are not so cool, and it can make it seem like they're not as caring or smart as women. But remember, it's not true for every guy out there.
3. IT'S THEIR WAY or the HIGH WAY
Most guys think that the world revolves around them. Well I hate to break it to them but it doesn't. There's this thing called compromising and learning to swallow your pride. Guys can be very difficult to communicate with and they throw fits if things don't go their way. They need to learn that they aren't always going to be in control. For once they should let us have a say or meet in the middle. It's not the end of the world if things don't go their way.
Yeah, sometimes men do things that aren't as cool as what women do. Nobody's perfect, and guys can mess up just like anyone else.
Well, some dudes might not be as good at listening, or they could be a bit lazy around the house. Sometimes they act tough when it's cool to be kind instead. It's not all guys, but some can be like that.
For sure! Guys can learn and change just like anybody. They can get better at stuff they're not great at, like talking about feelings or helping out more.
Nope, not all men are bad at the same stuff. Every guy is different, so some might be really good at things that others aren't. It's about the person, not just if they're a man or woman.
Sometimes it's just for laughs, like making a joke. Other times it's because some men do things that are not so cool, and it can make it seem like they're not as caring or smart as women. But remember, it's not true for every guy out there.
4. THEY over SEXUALIZE WOMEN
Men are dogs and that's the fact of life. All they see is an item that's used to pleasure their sexual needs. Well we're actually human beings. We have thoughts and opinions on the issues society faces today. We aren't sex toys for the boys.
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Many guys seem to suffer from a chronic case of tunnel vision, where every gal is scoped out for her curves rather than her character. It's like we're walking through a world where only our bodies speak, while our voices are stuck on mute. The truth is—we want to be seen for our intellect, our humor, our kindness, and our strength. Not just the shape of our silhouette. Respect is sexy, fellas. Get with the program and appreciate the whole package, not just the wrapping.
Yeah, sometimes men do things that aren't as cool as what women do. Nobody's perfect, and guys can mess up just like anyone else.
Well, some dudes might not be as good at listening, or they could be a bit lazy around the house. Sometimes they act tough when it's cool to be kind instead. It's not all guys, but some can be like that.
For sure! Guys can learn and change just like anybody. They can get better at stuff they're not great at, like talking about feelings or helping out more.
Nope, not all men are bad at the same stuff. Every guy is different, so some might be really good at things that others aren't. It's about the person, not just if they're a man or woman.
Sometimes it's just for laughs, like making a joke. Other times it's because some men do things that are not so cool, and it can make it seem like they're not as caring or smart as women. But remember, it's not true for every guy out there.
5. DOUBLE STANDARDS
I swear a man can get away with much more than a woman can. They probably feel the same way about us but they're naive if they can't see their own privileges. A guy can walk around shirtless without a problem, but if a girl does it she gets charged and arrested. Guys can go around and sleep with whoever they like and get praises for it, but if a woman does it she's known as a slut and she's shamed. It amazes me to how many guys just can't see this. Maybe they should stand up for us more often.
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Khriss: bruh you a goofy female. you aint ever felt true happiness. find you a man or a woman or they or a them or a black person to hug you and hold you. you need to wake up and smell the roses sweetheart , just cause you got booba dont mean you gotta act like a stuck up child with no sense in the world. Sincerely, Montell Alagonquin Sharell
Nancy: #4 they have nothing more to offer
Nancy: #3 you are right, which has nothing to do with who is right and or wrong, it has to do with working things out that is good for both of yous and men do not like it when women are leaders, both men and women can be excellent leaders, your spouse can lead in one way and a women in another, that is all, and you share those wonderful skills, and learn from one another and you use those skills as a benefit again ego problems again religion.
Nancy: men do need to grow up some do and some donot,and then wonder why the divorce rate is so high , of course they have double standards, what else is new, they do not want to work at a relationship, they only give a damn about themselvs, and what only works for them, rather than work things out and compromise, too much work for them, puts a damper on there life style, and then as they get older, and end up divorced, they regret it and too late.
Nancy: #2 men are the weak ones
Ceyla: The first one I did mean tho
Nancy: #1 they do not use their brains, they are located in their genitals.
Nancy: #4 it is ashame that men do this, as eventually it will turn and bite them in the ass, your relationship with spouse is not all about sex, as eventually this will change,, yes of course it is important but a man needs to be realistic about this, sex is about love and beautiful gift between two people, as an expression of love, intimacy, bonding together. and men do take things personally, and make all about them, again, and again, they do not learn. the ones that do, good for them, women are not sexual toys or objects either, you do not have the right to do whatever you wish with womens bodies, just to pleasure your own needs, tis a two system not just one.
Ceyla: I think women need to stop ripping on men. Y’all complain about sexism when you are the ones tweeting men suck. Maybe u gals are the ones that suck if all u do is dis men and then complain about men being sexist. Women need to get a life and learn to stop suckin their own d!ck.
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