The Daily Problems Only People Pleasers Can Relate to ...

Sheila

I've been a people pleaser for as long as I can remember and while I'm working hard to change that, I still understand the everyday struggles of being a people pleaser. It's a hard life folks!

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Saying No is the Hardest Thing in the Universe!

Saying No is the Hardest Thing in the Universe!

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And if You do Find a Way to Say No, You'll Never Stop Feeling Guilty

And if You do Find a Way to Say No, You'll Never Stop Feeling Guilty

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You Hate Arguing, so the Other Person "wins" by Default

You Hate Arguing, so the Other Person "wins" by Default

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Speaking of Arguing, You're Almost Always the First to Say Sorry

Speaking of Arguing, You're Almost Always the First to Say Sorry

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Because You Can't Stand It when Someone is Mad at You!

Because You Can't Stand It when Someone is Mad at You!

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You're so Busy Trying to Please Everyone That You Have No Time for Yourself

You're so Busy Trying to Please Everyone That You Have No Time for Yourself

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People Take Advantage of You All the Time...and You Don't Know How to Make It Stop

People Take Advantage of You All the Time...and You Don't Know How to Make It Stop

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When Someone Asks You for a Favor and You Know You're Going to Say Yes

When Someone Asks You for a Favor and You Know You're Going to Say Yes

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You Often Pity Laugh at Jokes That Aren't Even Funny Just to Be Polite

You Often Pity Laugh at Jokes That Aren't Even Funny Just to Be Polite

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It's Exhausting to Get Everyone to like You but You'll Never Stop Trying!

It's Exhausting to Get Everyone to like You but You'll Never Stop Trying!

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You Hate Taking Sides! I Mean Why Can't Everyone Just Get along?

You Hate Taking Sides! I Mean Why Can't Everyone Just Get along?

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Then There Are Times when Salespeople Try to Sell You Stuff You Don't Need....that You'll End up Buying Anyway

Then There Are Times when Salespeople Try to Sell You Stuff You Don't Need....that You'll End up Buying Anyway

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When You Lend Someone Money, You Know You'll Probably Never See It Again Because You're Too Nice to Remind Them

When You Lend Someone Money, You Know You'll Probably Never See It Again Because You're Too Nice to Remind Them

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You End up Talking to Annoying Co-passengers Because... Why Wouldn't You?

You End up Talking to Annoying Co-passengers Because... Why Wouldn't You?

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You'd Rather Go on a Bad Date than Turn Someone down

You'd Rather Go on a Bad Date than Turn Someone down

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It's so Hard to Express Your POV, Especially when You Disagree with Someone

It's so Hard to Express Your POV, Especially when You Disagree with Someone And finally....

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When Someone Doesn't like You, You Die a Little inside

When Someone Doesn't like You, You Die a Little inside Are you a people pleaser?

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Oh it's exhausting :(

This is totally me. It really can get exhausting and stressful.

Please people but not too much

This is a real thing! I didn't realise until recently that that's what I did. I'm breaking out of the cycle and all my best buds I can see were just users. They don't like me very much but now I don't care. The hardest thing is voicing your opinions very hard even if someone disagrees cos u feel guilty if there's a misunderstanding.

I'm proud to say I'm a God pleaser rather than a people pleaser

That's me. But i am trying to break this cycle! Even though I realized that I am losing friends, but those I guess they never meant to be.! They were in my life to use me. ..I am more happier in the process.

lol wow I am so glad I'm not the only one ! I wish I could stop. I'm married to a man that just doesn't care if ppl like him or not. I admire him lol he helps me a lot!

Ugh this is me

I'm a total people pleaser

Yep. It's a never ending cycle. If only they knew how different (in a bad way) their life would be if you weren't there at their beck and call.

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