I've been a people pleaser for as long as I can remember and while I'm working hard to change that, I still understand the everyday struggles of being a people pleaser. It's a hard life folks!
1. Saying No is the Hardest Thing in the Universe!
2. And if You do Find a Way to Say No, You'll Never Stop Feeling Guilty
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3. You Hate Arguing, so the Other Person "wins" by Default
4. Speaking of Arguing, You're Almost Always the First to Say Sorry
5. Because You Can't Stand It when Someone is Mad at You!
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6. You're so Busy Trying to Please Everyone That You Have No Time for Yourself
7. People Take Advantage of You All the Time...and You Don't Know How to Make It Stop
8. When Someone Asks You for a Favor and You Know You're Going to Say Yes
9. You Often Pity Laugh at Jokes That Aren't Even Funny Just to Be Polite
10. It's Exhausting to Get Everyone to like You but You'll Never Stop Trying!
11. You Hate Taking Sides! I Mean Why Can't Everyone Just Get along?
12. Then There Are Times when Salespeople Try to Sell You Stuff You Don't Need....that You'll End up Buying Anyway
13. When You Lend Someone Money, You Know You'll Probably Never See It Again Because You're Too Nice to Remind Them
14. You End up Talking to Annoying Co-passengers Because... Why Wouldn't You?
15. You'd Rather Go on a Bad Date than Turn Someone down
16. It's so Hard to Express Your POV, Especially when You Disagree with Someone
And finally....
17. When Someone Doesn't like You, You Die a Little inside
Are you a people pleaser?
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BrittanyBAKER: Omg yes it's awful.
Katelyn: Yep. It's a never ending cycle. If only they knew how different (in a bad way) their life would be if you weren't there at their beck and call.
sharon: I'm proud to say I'm a God pleaser rather than a people pleaser
desilicious: Oh it's exhausting :(
courtneyjade: This is definitely me!
Kimmi: You can NEVER please MAN or HAVE confidence in him.....always please or aim to please God.
Allyfedor: I'm a total people pleaser
michel: Ugh this is me
heyits_madz: This is totally me. It really can get exhausting and stressful.
teta: That's me. But i am trying to break this cycle! Even though I realized that I am losing friends, but those I guess they never meant to be.! They were in my life to use me. ..I am more happier in the process.
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